No matter your pleasure, there are a sea of sex toys and intimacy-enhancing tools that will intensify partner sex or just straight up masturbation. When we curate our product collections, we keep this in mind; setting the goal of offering something for everyone - regardless of experience level.
Whatever type of sex is on your menu, here are our top 6 picks for couples sex toys and men's pleasure products that will accommodate any type of action.
PUBLIC SEX - Look, we are all about using pleasure products in like, every situation, but sometimes we accidentally leave the cock rings at home. (It happens to the best of us.) Unless you’ve set the intention to have sex while out in public on a particular night, it’s highly unlikely that you’ll have a sex toy at the ready if you slip into the bathroom for a few minutes. Which is fine, because public sex is so hot that very little assistance is needed in the ‘hurry up and come’ department. However - having some discreet cleanup materials on hand will wash away any leftover...evidence! Pick up a pack of antibacterial wipes (small packaging preferred) and keep them in your pocket or purse. Plus, they are multipurpose and come in super handy in case your post-quickie meal gets messy. (Looking at you, buffalo wing sauce.)
Our recommendation: CLEAN individually-wrapped pH-balanced intimate wipes
BUTT SEX - Butt sex shouldn’t be rough sex - but when it is, exhibiting caution should be priority. Unlike the vagina, the butt doesn’t self-lubricate, and at times a thick silicone lube can only provide so much comfort. For an extra helping hand, reaching for an anal relaxation formula will make it easier to glide in and out without potentially causing damage to the receiving end. For anal sex newcomers especially, a gentle numbing cream will help relax the ass prior to penetration - but know that its purpose is NOT to numb pain. Using anal desensitizer to numb the back door can result in damage. Its purpose is solely to prevent discomfort. Like other muscles, the sphincter requires a bit of training to make anal play pleasurable, so TAKE. IT. SLOW.
Our recommendation: EASE anal relaxation formula
SLOW SEX - Like Missy Elliott said, “I don’t want no minute man…” -- and that is the case for many other people, too. Quickies are hot, but long and slow marathons are the key to more explosive orgasms. The average length of sex lasts about 5-7 minutes, with 50% of men lasting 2 minutes, and 80% experiencing some version of premature ejaculation. The good news is that there are options to help increase the length of your stamina, such as:
Taking your time with extended foreplay
-Anxiety calming techniques (breathe slowly!)
-Using a topical spray to reduce sensitivity in the penis
In any case, COMMUNICATION is at the top of the list for partner sex- and it is healthy to explore all of the potential options that work best for YOU. There is no shame in using an ejaculation delay formula - because it increases the potential for all parties to have a happy ending. When used right, it can be a total game changer.
Our recommendation: LAST male delay spray
QUICK SEX: Many women need a significantly longer amount of time to build up arousal before having the ability to orgasm - typically around 20 minutes. Additionally, it’s not always easy to whip out a vibrator in the heat of the moment -- and some bodies may be too sensitive to pair intercourse with a vibrating sex toy. Adding a couple drops of clit stimulation formula can make all the difference in helping the process move at a steady pace. Clit arousal gel or lube is a great alternative to a traditional vibrator or vibrating cock ring, because it creates a similar buzzy effect without being TOO stimulating. Just a little dab will do. Try not having sex until she is on the way to orgasm - and remember that there is no such thing as needing ‘too much time’.
Our recommendation: CLIMAX clitoral arousal stimulant
SOLO SEX: Sure, nothing feels better than your own hand -- most of the time. You know the pace, rhythm and style that make your body feel the best. When the old hand job just won’t do, or you’re looking to build your sexual stamina, alternating from a stroker to your hand in one session will build up your orgasm, allow you to experience different sensations -and- practice patience. A good male masturbator will feel like the real thing, so it's really the best of all worlds.
Our recommendation: STROKE ultra-grip stroker
BDSM SEX: Whether you’ve experimented with bondage before or you’re an adventurous newcomer, incorporating a set of satin restraints are a one-size-fits-all option for any submissive. They don’t require a lock and key, and just a simple tug of the sash will allow them to come undone in a pinch. A satin restraint can also double as a blindfold, if you’re just starting to dabble in the sensual world of power exchange. Plus, you can use the silky material as a sensory play tool - lightly drag it against the inner thighs and travel north, “Second star to the right, and straight on ‘til moaning.” Wise words (for the most part), via Peter Pan.
Our recommendation: BIND 3-piece satin restraint kit
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