Valentine's Day is just around the corner, and if you have ANY inclination to introduce a sex toy into the bedroom, NOW IS THE PERFECT OPPORTUNITY.
Sure, you can gift the traditional roses or romantic dinner, but why let the romance stop when you get home? Foreplay actually starts way before you step foot in the bedroom - beginning with mental and emotional stimulation.
Deciding to use a sex toy with your significant other should have their best interests in mind (not just yours). Example: if you're gonna buy a cock ring, you better not show up empty handed - without something that will help your partner get off, too.
Surprising your partner with a sex toy can lead to a lot of awkwardness if you haven't had open communication about mutual interests. It's best to approach the subject lightly before whipping out a vibrator during sex, for the sake of consensualism. Our favorite approach: "We have amazing sex...would you be open to exploring with something that will enhance your stimulation? I want to take our pleasure to the next level."
We understand how sensitive this subject can be; no one wants to feel like they are inadequate in bed, and you don't want your partner to feel that way either. But the *actual* point is: both partners deserve to feel as GOOD as possible during foreplay and sex. That is the ultimate goal. Treat sex like a special occasion, not a rushed afterthought. Foreplay is an avenue towards more genuine intimacy; getting to know what really turns your partner on; the opportunity to communicate on a different level.
If you know your partner is on board, you can either shop together online (an awesome post-Valentine's Day dinner activity (and very discreet) - or you can take initiative and shop for a sexy surprise on your own. Your North Star is knowing how and where your partner likes to be touched. From there...
IF BOTH PARTNERS ARE ON BOARD, ARE YOU INTERESTED IN:
TIPS FOR FIRST-TIME SEX TOY SHOPPERS:
Our top picks for couple's sex toys are....
SMOOTH lube +
HEAT soy massage candles +
CLEAN pH-balanced wipes
EXTERNAL STIMULATION BUNDLE:
STROKE pleasure sleeve
CLIMAX clitoral enhancer
PULSE vibrating ring
CLIMAX clitoral enhancer +
VIBE bullet 2-pack +
PULSE vibrating ring
BIND satin restraint kit +
VIBE bullet vibe +
EASE anal relaxation formula
Because we are advocates for sexual exploration and next-level pleasure, we are offering 15% all purchases until February 15th with code NEXTLEVELSEX at checkout. Additional questions? Email us at firstname.lastname@example.org!
Happy fucking/Valentine's Day!